The stone-cold truth of the matter is that most of us guys absolutely suck when it comes to pleasuring women. Make your tongue flat Relax it as much as possible Lick her whole vulva including her labia, vaginal opening, and clit with your flat relaxed tongue in a slow motion Do this from the bottom her vaginal opening to her clitoris When returning down just follow her inner and outer labia on one side by the tip of your tongue The second time you need to focus on her lips on the other side This is a very simple technique each and every guy should begin with as it shows your interest in her and that you enjoy her pussy! A blonde has her pussy turned the other way when she gets pushed into by a big black piece Edit.