Although the term is often deemed to be synonymous with man hater, a real feminist is anything but a man hater, and I, for one, am definitely a man lover. Women and men are different creatures, and I am certainly glad of that. But for some it's not that simple. Although some of my friends and family were unhappy I had posed and my sorority, Kappa Delta, placed me on national probation for making this perfectly legal choice, it wasn't for or because of them that I clung to this excuse.