Stick with it though one day that light bulb will click on the Bible does stress the equality of man and woman and the importance that both roles play in a relationship. A lot also has to do with childhood, maladaptive ways of coping, like stuffing feelings, and LOTS more. He gave me access to her texts, emails, social media and even her own personal bank account. The bible has been proven wrong on nearly every aspect. Generally speaking, talking to her about sex is also futile as it often lands up wrong.